Thursday, April 12, 2007

Appointment Results

We are traveling tonight to meet a child in Donetsk tomorrow (Friday). It is about an 8 hour trip by car. We had a lot of emotions coming out of the appointment, but I think we have begun to take some comfort in our decision. We are hoping that there are no surprises tomorrow when we meet this child. The meeting was just as we had expected it to be, unfortunately, all of the children had some sort of issue. Some more issues than others. The sibling groups that we were presented were easily crossed off the list because of reasons like HIV, severe mental retardation, and Hepatitis. The rest of the children that we were shown had medical issues or there were things in their pasts that concerned us. One child was described as healthy but was 7 years old, and that would have put them as the oldest child in our family and I wasn't willing to take that distinction away from our son. The child that we have selected to meet is around 2.5 years old. We will meet the child tomorrow and hope to be able to start the adoption process immediately. As soon as we have internet access again, we will pass on all of the details if the adoption is a go. As long as there are no medical surprises tomorrow, we expect it to be a go. Please keep praying f0r us. You can not imagine the emotional struggle that a decision like that is until you have been in that spot. We thought we were prepared but we were not. Also, the lack of sleep and the homesickness don't help any either. We did have an extreme sense of peace though as we waited for our appointment. God did relieve our anxieties. He is good.

6 comments:

Tami said...

We're praying for you!

Leslie said...

Blessings in this leg of your journey! Many will be [raying for you as you go.

Joanna said...

David & Stacey: What a journey. WE really enjoy your blog and reading about your journey. We wish the best in your travels and journey and know that good things will come........We think of you daily .........Best....

Love and God Speed

Uncle Russ & Aunt Josie

HardestyHouse said...

Hi,You don't know me, but Tammy Castleman sent me your blog. I have a little boy from Donetsk asleep in his bed upstairs. We adopted Jaden 4 years ago. At that time you could adopt 2 children with one dossier. Jaden was 17 mo. and Camden was 28 mo. (not related). We were in Ukraine for almost a month which wasn't that bad for adopting 2 children. It was a hard trip, but wouldn't trade it for the world. I call that trip our faith builder and my China adoption a 5 star vacation. We adopted a little girl from China 2 years ago. My prayers are with you. My prayer for my trip was to draw closer to God and laugh a lot. Both were answered.
Many prayers,
Jackie Hardesty

Shelley said...

Storming heaven with prayers for you and the new child God has chosen for you. Love, Shelley Klein

Michelle said...

We can't wait to hear the results of the meeting! Katie was telling me this morning that she might have a 2 year old little brother. We were saying that would be close to Jacob's age. Looks like we might have even more fun getting together to play! In the meantime, we are praying!